What makes you different?

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

So, what actually makes us all different?

How do people move on so quickly? I’m still sprung over someone I was dating and he found someone else so fast. I feel hurt because I’m still head over heels over him while he’s out enjoying his life with someone new

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

What are the primary causes of the persistent smog crisis affecting Delhi and other parts of North India?

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

What makes you YOU.

I am glad you enjoyed my pictures. Do you have any photos to share?

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

Why do people smoke?

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

So, keep on experimenting.

What did your sister do to you that you can never forget?

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

If Jesus was crucified by Governor Pontius Pilate, why does the Quran deny his death?

Can you make it?

Yes, I was not at all happy.

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Undercover cops in New York are riding the subways with iPods on to entice robbery. Is that a form of entrapment? If not, why not?

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

Why were the Japanese soldiers in WW II so hesitant to surrender in battle?

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

I found out I have cancer—I have not told my family. We can’t afford the treatment anyway. Should I just say nothing and let nature take its course?

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

How do I get over a long-term relationship breakup?

Agree?

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

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Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

How can you tell if someone is cunning?

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

Do guys prefer big boobs or small boobs? Why?

Without experiments, is life worth it.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

Why am I always so tired, no matter how much I sleep?

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

What if he’d come outside?

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.